Oprah (and some Rabbi) Lists Best Places To Meet A Good Man

Picture of Josh purely for inspiration

(strangely enough the smokey patio of a bar isn’t on here! Whaaaaat? I for one am shocked.)

1. Churches, synagogues or mosques: “There will you find men with a spiritual disposition,” Rabbi Shmuley says.

2. Bookstores: Here, you’ll find men who are intelligent, he says.

3. Charity events: Volunteer to work with charitable organizations and attend charity events to find men with heart, Rabbi Shmuley says. “[Charity events] usually draw men with a social conscience,” he says.

4. On dates set up by friends: Your friends will most likely be discerning in who they’ll introduce you to, Rabbi Shmuley says.

5. In the military: “The military usually draws really good guys,” he says. “They’re heroes—men with a sense of mission.”

6. At work: Rabbi Shmuley says he’s not opposed to office romances. “In a serious office are usually serious, hardworking and respectful men who aren’t peering down your shirt and they aren’t getting bombed at a bar, and they’re also right there in your backyard,” he says.

7. Libraries: These are quiet, contemplative settings that often attract intellectual guys, Rabbi Shmuley says.

8. Concert halls: Find cultured men who love music at these venues, he says.

9. Weddings: Weddings have a great romantic atmosphere, and commitment phobes usually stay away from them, Rabbi Shmuley says.

10. Lectures and debates: Such events usually attract a higher quality guy.

11. Coffeehouses and poetry recitals: Seek out the sensitive, nice guys who might frequent these places.

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